I believe in soul mates. Like the Yin and Yang, two halves of a whole, so too are you and your soul mate. But I also believe in a sexual soul mate; that one person whose sexual tastes run so closely parallel to yours that together, you are explosive. I found mine by accident.
It was one of those boring days, nothing to do, nothing on the agenda and I was hacking away at my computer. I’d been online talking to a friend of mine and she told me, “You should send a friend request to my friend Anthony Wayne. You guys will really hit it off, I just know it.” So, that’s what I did.
Our first conversation was an odd one, neither of us quite knowing what to say to the other. The second wasn’t much better. By the time we were on our third conversation, we were exchanging pleasantries, making small talk and having some fun. By the end of our first week, it was obvious. Tony and I had chemistry. We talked about what we liked, sexually. Our tastes ran right along the same vein. I wanted a man, a REAL man. One that would overpower me, throw me down and take what he wanted. Tony wanted a woman that would fight him off, he would overpower and then take. It was perfect. Except for one problem, Tony and I lived in different states. Very different states.
We made a plan to see each other. Tony was going to come visit me under the pretense of wanting to try the hunting in my area. I was going to escape for a “girls” weekend. There was a cabin in the quiet woods that had been rented and the date was set. Because this would be the first time meeting face to face, we had decided to meet in a public place just to make us both feel more comfortable.
I entered the nightclub and looked around. I was a little early and decided to have a glass of wine to help settle my nerves. As I stood at the bar waiting for my drink, I saw him. Tony was standing on the other side of the dance floor and, as cliché as it may sound, our eyes locked and it was like a magnetic force pulling me toward him. I left the bar before my drink came and moved across the floor in his direction. He, too, was moving across the floor toward me. At the center of the packed dance floor, we both stopped and stared at each other. The next thing I knew, Tony put his arms around me and pulled me flush against his body. It was really my Tony. I wrapped my arms around his waist and hugged him tightly. He leaned down and kissed me over and over again.